The Best Helping Resources

Dr. Milton Magness, Houston, TX

Dr. Milton Magness is without a doubt the very best investment I know of to help a couple save and heal their marriage damaged by sexual addiction. A therapist in Houston, he specializes in doing three-day intensives with individual couples. We’ve seen scores of couples utilize this resource and go on to not only heal, but to thrive. And Dr. Magness has trained many other clinicians in various locations in the United States to utilize his protocol, providing options closer to home for some, if that is helpful. You can learn more about these powerful intensives at his website,

We encourage you to also watch his 20 short videos in which he shares on topics related to recovering from the damage this addiction does in the addict’s life, the partner’s life, and the heart of their marriage. We’re hearing rave reviews from our clients who’ve viewed them on his YouTube channel.

And you can now order his helpful books in our site store.

An endorsement from Dr. Magness for our ministry "Journey to Healing and Joy"

Infidelity Survivors Anonymous

ISA is a trauma-focused 12 step group, and I ask every woman dealing
with sex addiction in her primary relationship to print the ISA tools.
These resources can really help. And once you have done a group that
will help you deal with your trauma and PTSD, such as those we offer, an
ISA phone group provides wonderful supportive maintenance.

Recovering sex addict Pastor Darrell Brazell’s
helpful free talks on sex addiction topics

Darrell presents a wealth of helpful information about a wife’s pain and healing, and many powerful no-cost presentations about the sex addict and the addiction.

Like all sites, his changes from time to time, but look for and find the free teaching downloads. We strongly recommend you listen to at least these two, if you don’t have time to hear them all. They are titled:

  • Brain Science and Sex Addiction
  • Attachment

Paul Young, Author of The Shack –
Watch Paul as he vulnerably shares his sexual addiction story

Paul’s story helps us understand how early-life pain can set the stage for sexual addiction throughout life. As you listen to Paul’s honest vulnerability you may gain greater understanding of how your husband ended up in sex addiction.

Sex Addiction & Erectile Dysfunction: There is Hope!

Girls, there’s good news: it isn’t about you. Rather, the addiction has made changes in his brain. As you watch and listen to this information-packed video, you’ll see SPECT scans of sex addicts’ brains, showing the changes that take place above his eyebrows, not below his belt. And you’ll also see that the damage to his brain can be reversed if—and it’s a big if—he wants it badly enough to do the work it takes to reclaim his sexuality, his marriage, and your bedroom. We hope you find it as helpful as we did.